looking uncared for

All This Time: Daughtry, Mikki, Lippincott, Rachael

Dear Friends,
what does it mean? :

Thanks in advance.

Some of the plots are carefully maintained, fresh flowers looping around the stone, trinkets from friends and loved ones placed underneath.
Others are overgrown, no one left to look after them.
Will Kim’s grave be okay? I sure as hell hope so. .
I wouldn’t want it looking like… well… like this one.
I stop to study a small headstone with dead ivy crawling over the corners, the inscription just a single word: GOODBYE. No name, no date, nothing.

It means that while the person doesn't care if their grave is neglected or overgrown, it would bother them to see Kim's grave in a similar state.