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[Dec. 10th, 2006|06:55 pm]
Talk Hard
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I DO think guys fall harder than girls, but that doesn't neccesarily mean they fall faster. Girls fall faster mostly in the sense that they become infatuated. Most typical girls date someone for say, a week, and they're like OMG I LOVE YOU. And then they break up, find someone else, and it's the same cycle. Guys however, they don't exactly fall very fast. It all of course depends, and I'm trying not to generalize. I'm saying when they guy DOES fall for someone, he falls hard. Very hard.
Well that's my opinion of it anyway.
But then some guys get so used to the idea of being in a long relationship, that it's becomes like a routine. They sort of get lazy in the sense that they think they'll always have their special someone, so there's no need to work a little hard to earn affection or trust. They also believe that since they've already "hooked" their lover, that there's no need to do romantic or special or sweet things for their love anymore. So they've passed the stage of falling hard and trying to win her affection, but once he has, he dies down from a roaring fire to dying embers.
BUT I AM NOT SAYING ALL PEOPLE ARE LIKE THIS.
I'm just saying how I feel about it. |
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