Looking for: A long-term monogamous relationship with a man.
I’m still a romantic at heart, filled with the feelings of freedom and excitement from the ‘60s, so I like the long-hair look and am a very liberal thinker who doesn’t necessarily stick to convention. The rock, pop and folk music of that time continues to feed my soul today; I follow a few bands and count local musicians among my friends.
I can be very spontaneous, such as when my month-long visit to Canada turned into a permanent home: I impulsively joined a road trip out west, missing my plane home in the process and here I am today!
I regularly see my close friends, and even though I’m an introvert at heart, I am outgoing and animated with the people I feel a connection with.
I like to be outdoors, whether it’s walking or riding my bike, or setting out on a road trip through new vistas. Being out in nature can be a spiritual thing for me, just watching the scenery go by.
I also like my quiet time when I watch documentaries and educational programs. I also read books about real life and people, along with the Toronto Star every morning to keep current.
I don’t like heights or confined spaces. I once had to be rescued from the top of a Ferris wheel! I would rather be out on the deck of a ship than below, watching the waves or the stars, and feeling the breeze. I slept on the deck of an overnight ferry to a Greek island once.
Travelwise, I love exploring different cultures and historic places. I am a good trip organizer and planner, but I need to have a tour guide with me to find my way around once I get there: I can get lost in a single building or anywhere where there are no signs, so I use GPS more than any other device on my phone!
My dating history
I have had two long marriages, the first of which ended in divorce. I have one daughter from that marriage and she is now the most cherished person in my life.
The second marriage ended in widowhood several years ago. He suffered a long illness and I became his full-time caregiver for a number of years. I have dated a few times since but only with people I meet in person.
What I’m looking for in a relationship
I would be good for someone who wants a true partner. I’m a good listener and straightforward communicator, willing to share my feelings as well as my thoughts. I am independent and keep my space and life organized.
The most important qualities in someone for me are openness and genuineness, with a certain energy for life. My person should have a positive outlook and good enough health that they would be able to enjoy some of my favourite activities with me.
Why I’m doing it this way
I still have a good life to live and would like it to be with someone special — and as a daily Toronto Star reader, perhaps I can find my perfect match right here.
Lightning round with Donna
What three movies would you take to a desert island?
“Islands in the Stream,” “Easy Rider” and “2001: A Space Odyssey.”
What was the last fun outing you had?
Exploring a small quaint group of islands off the coast of the U.K. with my sister.
What are you most afraid of?
What is your favourite food?
Indian cuisine, thanks to its delicious spices.
If you could spend the day with one celebrity, who would it be and why?
George Harrison, for his musical talents and spirituality.
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